Gentle Reader, today I tackle my failings for you.
Miss Gail where are your Ace or Grey or Demi or Other Queer Characters?
How about a disabled characters?
What about Pan or Poly?
I’m doing my best but even I can’t catch them all, as it were.
I will keep writing lots of queer characters, I promise, but in the meantime…
Here’s a sample some fun romantic or sexy (not too serious) books with main characters that straddle the divides that I do not – so to speak. Oh and happy endings. ALWAYS.
I’m specifically going for a lighter tone, since that’s what I like to read (although a few of these are a touch dark they always end happily). For Your Enjoyment!
- The Trouble with Tony by Eli Easton (demi, gay)
- For Better or Worse by R. Cooper (grey, gay)
- Squared Away by Annabeth Albert (ace, gay)
- Upside Down by N.R. Walker (ace/ace, gay) (Jay’s Review)
- Under His Stiletto by KA Merikan (crossdresser BDSM gay)
- Only See You by JD Chambers (nonbinary/they)
- Tea by Matthew J. Metzger (disability, self esteem body pos, gay) (Jay’s Review)
- The Mating of Michael by Eli Easton (physically disabled, sexwork, gay)
- Honeymoon for One by Keira Andrews (hearing impaired, May/December, gay)
- A Touch of Love by Sheryl Lister (hearing loss, het)
- The Blinding Light by Renae Kaye (blind, gay)
- Mud & Lace by Jay Northcote (discovery bi meets discovery gender fluid)
- Unmasked by the Marquess by Cat Sebastian (gender fluid)
- The Doctor’s Discretion by EE Ottoman (bit of everything)
- Kushiel’s Dart by Jacqueline Carey (political fantasy, BDSM, pan, opoly) trigger warnings, rape & abuse
- Bearly A Lady by Cassandra Khaw (paranormal, bi)
- Sea Lover by J.K. Pendragon (trans meets merman)
- A Dance of Water and Air by Antonia Aquilante (trans, demi, fantasy) (my review)
- Truth in the Dark by Amy Lane (fairy tale, disfigurement, gay) trigger warning, rape (my review)
- A Knight of Ghosts and Shadows by Mercedes Lackey (urban fantasy, sweet, bi, poly) off screen triggers, no digital edition (my review)
- My Man Godric and A Little Familiar by R Cooper (paranormal romance & fantasy, cross dressing, gender fluid, ) lots of Cooper’s stuff could appear in this blog post
Won’t Someone Think of the Children!?
- It Feels Good to Be Yourself: A Book About Gender Identity by Theresa Thorn (children’s picture book)
- Having Her Back by Ann Gallagher (YA sweet romance, trans)
A sweet first love YA about a boy whose best friend cuts him off unexpectedly for years, and when they meet again that friend is now a girl. They fall in love. It’s adorable and complex and gentle but also quintessentially YA in that it is the adults who often make mistakes, and the kids must learn to see their parents as fallible. No major triggers and yet it deals deftly with some very complex issues.
- Dreadnaught by April Daniels (YA)
Superhero featuring a trans main character. Everyone keeps telling me how brilliant it is and the reviews confirm.
- Not Your Sidekick and other books in CB Lee’s series (YA queer superheroes), own voices author. Not Your Backup features and ace/aero character!
- When the Moon Was Ours by Anna-Marie McLemore (YA)
This is a fantastical atmospheric fable featuring varied sexual identity, own voices author.
- Gender Queer: A Memoir by Maia Kobabe (graphic novel)
Since I read a lot of gay romance, and I vetted these myself, you can tell my recommendations are skewed. Please feel free to submit your own in comments but remember I’m PICKY. I don’t read: Hero’s Journey, rape, abusive/stalker Alphas, explicit violence, sad endings, etc…
- The Vorkosigan Saga: Conflicting Views of Disability
- 15 Trans, Nonbinary, and Gender Non-Conforming Writers to Support
- A lovely resource on Asexuality
- Random: A transgender cow, incongruous crustaceans and a boar-dog: the surprising tale of reconstructing a Byzantine mosaic floor
- Lesbian & Bi Literature Blog
- The Lesbrary (mostly lesbian book lists and reviews)
- Queer books featuring major characters who are disabled or neurodivergent/have a mental illness of some kind
- Joyfully Jay (mostly gay romance reviews)
- 9 LGBT Book Blogs
- More resources from when I was researching gender fluidity for The 5th Gender:
- 50 Must-Read Queer Romance Novellas
- Here’s a sortable LGBTQ reading list
- LGBTQ+ Books That Actually Have a Happy Ending
- Trans Lesbian Books Goodreads List
- A few WLW poly options
- Queer Women in Mixed-Gender Romance
- An Alphabet Guide to Queer Superheroes and Supervillains
- 12 Exceptional Comics About Trans and Genderqueer People
- 15 Must-Read Queer YA Fantasy Books
- 10 Joyful Queer Books
- Queer fantasy & sci-fi lists from me:
- Science Fiction and Fantasy from Transgender Writers by Cat Fitzpatrick
- Long Hidden: Speculative Fiction from the Margins of History by
- Tales of Queer Women and Magic anthology
- Reading Glasses: 84 – Our Fav Trans Authors (podcast)
Other posts in this series
Finally I am going to throw this AMAZING movie into the mix. I just love it so much…
Boy Meets Girl is a sweet charming contemporary romance, adorable and fun and so lovely. And yes one of the characters is trans but that’s only part of it. If you hesitate about anything around trans identity, please watch this movie.
Honestly it’s so good, it will leave you with warm fuzzies, I promise.
Yours, bathed in alternatives,
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Sci-fi queer romance meets cozy mystery in which a hot space station cop meets the most adorable purple alien ever (lavender, pulease!) from a race with 5 genders.
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GAIL’S DAILY DOSE
Your Moment of Parasol . . .
Your Infusion of Cute . . .
Your Tisane of Smart . . .
Your Writerly Tinctures . . .
“Inspiration usually comes during work, rather than before it.”
~ Madeleine L’Engle
“I don’t remember what I ate for lunch, but I remember the plot to every one of these books.”
~ Borderlands Books Hillarious “Overhead in the store” April News
Quote of the Day:
Gail: I think I put too much garlic in the mashed potatoes.
AB: No such thing.
G: It’s like 1/3 potato, 1/3 butter, 1/3 garlic
AB: Nothing is wrong with this.
~ Self on Twitter
5TH GENDER, Special Extras, Tinkered Stars
“I was a baby butch who had never heard the word and so didn’t know what to call myself until I first heard that word out loud in 1992 in the back stacks of Little Sister’s bookstore. I wore second-hand army boots three sizes too big and cut my own hair with clippers and met what I didn’t know at the time was my first femme lover and bought my first necktie and she called me handsome and that one word handsome made up for two decades of knowing I was never really all that pretty.”